Arya Samaj Court Marriage Gurgaon — Complete Service
Arya Samaj Court Marriage Gurgaon service is Delhi NCR's most trusted marriage solution for Gurugram Haryana couples. Our team serves all major areas of Gurgaon — DLF Cyber City, MG Road, Sohna Road, Sector 14, Sector 56, Manesar, Golf Course Road. We have helped 8,500+ Gurgaon couples successfully marry over 25 years.
Our Gurgaon Arya Samaj Court Marriage service includes both — traditional Arya Samaj Vivah (Same Day Vedic Ceremony with Mandir Certificate) and SDM Court Registration (Government Marriage Certificate). For Gurgaon couples, we provide full coordination for Delhi visit — registration in Gurgaon local SDM Office is also possible in some cases.
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Gurgaon Service Areas
We serve couples from all these Gurgaon areas:
- DLF Cyber City
- MG Road
- Sohna Road
- Sector 14
- Sector 56
- Manesar
Gurgaon Marriage Services
1. Arya Samaj Marriage Gurgaon
For Gurgaon couples, we provide Same Day Arya Samaj Vivah. Mandir is in Delhi but 25-30 minute drive from Gurgaon. Complete ceremony in 1.5-2 hours.
2. Court Marriage Gurgaon
Two options — (1) File at local Gurgaon SDM Office (if couple lives in Gurgaon), (2) Register at Delhi SDM Office (faster). Our advocates expert in both.
3. Marriage Registration Gurgaon
Registration of marriages already performed in Gurgaon. Help with Tehsildar/SDM Office.
4. Love Marriage Gurgaon
100% confidential service for Gurgaon love couples. Same day Arya Samaj + SDM Registration. No family notice.
5. NRI Marriage Gurgaon
For NRI couples in Gurgaon or with relatives in Gurgaon — complete NRI Marriage service. Apostille, Embassy Attestation.
Gurgaon to Delhi Travel
- Metro: Yellow/Red Line to Kashmiri Gate
- Cab: Uber/Ola — ₹200-500
- Self Drive: 30-45 minutes
- Auto: Easily available
Gurgaon Marriage Documents
- Aadhar Card of both bride and groom
- 10th Marksheet / Birth Certificate
- 8 Passport Size Photos
- Address Proof of Gurgaon
- Marital Status Affidavit
- 2 Witnesses
Gurgaon Marriage Fees
| Package | Fees |
| Basic Marriage Registration | ₹6,000 |
| Arya Samaj + Court Marriage | ₹7,100 |
| NRI / Inter-Religion Premium | ₹30,000 |
| Gurgaon Pickup/Drop (Optional) | ₹1,500 extra |
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The One Fact That Decides Everything: Gurugram Is Haryana, Not Delhi
Everybody in Gurugram knows this and almost nobody applies it to their marriage paperwork. It is the reason couples from here waste weeks, and it is worth getting straight before you read anything else.
Marriage registration is a state subject in its practical detail. Delhi registers marriages under Delhi’s rules through the Delhi e-District portal. Haryana registers them under the Haryana Compulsory Registration of Marriages Act, 2008 through its own portal at shaadi.edisha.gov.in. Two states, two Acts, two portals, two sets of forms and fees. A Gurugram address does not give you access to a Delhi office, and vice versa.
So the practical question is never “which office is nearest”. It is where the marriage was solemnised, and where you actually reside — and those two words decide your whole route.
Your Real Options, Mapped to Where You Live
| Your situation | Where it is done | Time |
| Both Hindu, Sikh, Jain or Buddhist; ceremony at the Delhi mandir | Registered in Delhi — Delhi’s rules provide for registration by the Registrar in whose jurisdiction the marriage was solemnised, as well as where a party resides. Your Gurugram address is not a problem. | Ceremony same day; certificate in a few working days |
| Same, but you would rather register in Haryana | Haryana, under the 2008 Act through shaadi.edisha.gov.in, with the ceremony evidence | Per the Haryana portal’s own timelines |
| Married by ceremony in Haryana already, never registered | Haryana — the 2008 Act covers marriages solemnised in Haryana | Per the portal |
| Married by ceremony in Delhi already, never registered | Delhi — on the solemnisation limb | About 7–10 days |
| Inter-faith, neither converting — and you live in Gurugram | Haryana. The Special Marriage Act notice goes to the Marriage Officer of a district where one of you has resided 30 days. If you live in Gurugram, that is a Haryana district. A Delhi office cannot take the notice on a Gurugram residence. | About 60 days |
| Inter-faith, and one of you genuinely lives in Delhi | Delhi, on that party’s residence | About 60 days |
Read row one again, because it is the one that helps most Gurugram couples. An Arya Samaj wedding performed in Delhi is a Hindu marriage under section 7 of the Hindu Marriage Act, 1955, and Delhi’s rules under section 8 allow registration where the marriage was solemnised. That is precisely why a couple living in DLF, Sohna Road or Sector 56 can marry at the Delhi mandir and register in Delhi without having lived there a single day — and why the Special Marriage Act route does not work the same way, because it turns on residence rather than solemnisation.
And row five is the one that catches people. Inter-faith couples living in Gurugram are regularly told they can “just file in Delhi”. They cannot, unless one of them genuinely resides in a Delhi district and can show it. What we will never do is draft a residence claim for an address you do not live at.
Registering in Haryana: What Is Different
If Haryana is your route, here is what to expect, so that you are not surprised at the counter.
- The law is the Haryana Compulsory Registration of Marriages Act, 2008, with its Rules of the same year. It applies to marriages solemnised in Haryana whatever the religion of the parties — Hindu, Muslim, Christian, Sikh, Jain, Buddhist and Parsi alike.
- The portal is shaadi.edisha.gov.in. Applications are made online and the appointment and verification follow with the registering authority for your area — in practice the Tehsildar, the Sub-Registrar or the municipal registrar depending on where the marriage took place.
- Fees rise the later you apply. The commonly published pattern is a lower fee within about ninety days of the marriage and higher fees after that, with a further tier after a year. Confirm the current figures on the portal itself — they are set by the state and they change, and we do not quote government fees from memory.
- Late registration is still registration. Being late costs a higher fee, not the right to register. We register Haryana marriages from years back regularly.
- Non-registration does not invalidate the marriage. Registration records a marriage; it does not create one. That principle is the same in every state, and the Supreme Court’s direction in Seema v. Ashwani Kumar (2006) — which is what produced the Haryana Act, the Delhi Order and their equivalents — was about protection and proof, not validity.
- Documents are broadly the same as in Delhi: age proof and photo identity for both, address proof showing the Haryana address, passport photographs, evidence of the ceremony, affidavits, and two witnesses with their own originals.
The one deadline that is absolute, in Haryana as in Delhi: after a spouse dies, the marriage cannot be registered at all — not for a fee, not with an affidavit, not by any office. Everything the survivor then needs must be proved another way. If you were married by ceremony and never registered, do it while both of you are alive.
The Special Marriage Act for a Gurugram Couple
If you are inter-faith and neither of you will convert — and nobody should convert to make a date work — this is your route. Here is how it actually runs from Gurugram.
- Residence. At least one of you must have resided in the district for thirty days immediately before the notice. If you live in Gurugram, that district is in Haryana, and the notice goes to the Marriage Officer there. Only one of you needs to satisfy it.
- What counts. An Aadhaar showing the Gurugram address, a rent agreement, electricity or gas bills, a bank statement, an employer’s letter, a landlord’s declaration. What the office is assessing is whether you genuinely live there. A hotel, a service apartment for a few weeks or a friend’s flat is not residence.
- The notice. Entered in the Marriage Notice Book and displayed at the office. And where neither of you permanently resides in that district, a copy is sent to the district of each party’s permanent residence to be published there too. For a Gurugram couple whose families are in Rohtak, Hisar, Meerut or Patna, that is the most important sentence on this page.
- Thirty days. Objections may be made, but only on a breach of a section 4 condition — a living spouse, incapacity to consent, the ages of 21 and 18, or prohibited degrees. Different religions, caste and family disapproval are not grounds.
- If somebody objects. The Marriage Officer must inquire and decide within thirty days, with civil-court powers. If he refuses, there is an appeal to the district court within thirty days, and costs can be awarded against a frivolous objection.
- Solemnisation before the Marriage Officer with three witnesses — three, not two — and no religious ceremony of any kind.
Nothing lawfully shortens either thirty-day period, in Haryana or anywhere else. Anybody in Gurugram offering to “manage” it is proposing a false residence claim or a false document.
If you live in Haryana, note the conversion law before anybody suggests shuddhi. Haryana has the Haryana Prevention of Unlawful Conversion of Religion Act, 2022. Like the statutes in Uttar Pradesh, Uttarakhand, Madhya Pradesh, Himachal Pradesh, Gujarat and several other states, these laws commonly require a prior declaration to the District Magistrate and commonly treat a conversion carried out solely for the purpose of marriage as unlawful — with consequences that can reach whoever performed or arranged it. Delhi has no such law, but you live in Haryana. Take proper legal advice from an advocate before anybody converts, and remember that the Special Marriage Act needs no conversion at all. Our inter-religion marriage page sets it out in full.
If Your Families Are Opposed
Two points specific to Gurugram, beyond the general safety plan.
The court is different. A couple resident in Haryana who fears for their safety approaches the Punjab and Haryana High Court at Chandigarh for a protection petition — not the Delhi High Court. A couple resident in Delhi approaches the Delhi High Court. Getting this wrong costs time at the worst possible moment. Either way, the petition is drafted and filed by an advocate acting in their own name. We do not draft or file petitions, we do not appear anywhere, and we take no share of any advocate’s fee.
The no-notice route matters more here. Gurugram and the districts around it — Rewari, Jhajjar, Rohtak, Mahendragarh — are exactly the belt where a published notice reaching a home village causes real trouble. Where both of you are Hindu, Sikh, Jain or Buddhist, an Arya Samaj marriage has no notice period at all, and that is a lawful difference worth understanding before anybody sells you the sixty-day route you did not need. Lata Singh (2006) and Shakti Vahini (2018) are the authorities on your right to marry and on the police’s duty to protect you; Shafin Jahan (2018) held that choosing a partner is part of the liberty protected by Article 21.
The basics either way: documents in your own hands with photographs in both email accounts; a bank account in her own name; both phones live; one trusted person outside the situation who knows where you are; and if somebody arrives, go somewhere public and staffed rather than a lane, a room or a parked vehicle. Emergency 112, women’s helpline 181. Our safety guide for couples has the full plan.
For Gurugram’s Corporate Couples
A large share of the couples we see from here work in Cyber City, Udyog Vihar, Golf Course Road or Manesar, and their problems are specific.
- Leave, not law, is usually the constraint. The ceremony is a morning; the registration appointment is one weekday. Ask for that one day a week in advance. Both of you must attend on the same day, so coordinate before you take the appointment, not after.
- Rented flats and address proof. Most of you are on eleven-month agreements. Put both names on the agreement — it is the cheapest protection either of you will ever buy, and it is also what makes a residence claim genuine if you later need the Special Marriage Act. Update one Aadhaar to the Gurugram address once the tenancy is stable.
- Employer records and medical cover. Group cover usually has a window of about thirty days from the marriage to add a spouse. Miss it and you may wait for the next enrolment.
- Nominations. EPF Form 2 and gratuity Form F nominations do not carry over on marriage, and in this belt a great many people still have a parent named years later. A nominee is a receiver, not an owner — nomination does not override succession law, with a deliberate exception for insurance where a parent, spouse or child nominee is a beneficial nominee.
- If either of you may be posted abroad, the certificate will need an apostille for a Hague Convention country or embassy attestation for one that is not, after authentication within India. Note that the authentication is done by the authority of the state that issued the certificate — so a Haryana certificate and a Delhi certificate take different first steps. Ask the receiving authority which form it wants before ordering. Our NRI marriage page covers the chain.
- Name changes. No law requires anybody to change their surname. If you do, the passport step is a re-issue and the passport number changes — do not schedule it in the same month as international travel.
For Couples Who Came to Gurugram to Work
The other half of this city. Drivers, cooks, guards, housekeeping staff, construction workers, delivery riders, salon and mall staff, and the households of Sector 39, Chakkarpur, Nathupur, Sikanderpur, Wazirabad village, Dundahera and Kapashera on the border. The problems are different and so are the answers.
- A home-state Aadhaar is not a disqualification. An Aadhaar showing a village in Bihar, Jharkhand, West Bengal, Odisha or Uttar Pradesh is a real government document. Do not decide in advance that you cannot apply — bring what you actually have.
- Married in the village and never registered? That is the commonest situation here. Bring the wedding card, ceremony photographs, an attested register extract with the entry number from the mandir, masjid, gurudwara or church where the wedding took place — registers belong to the institution, so a pandit or qazi who has died is usually not the end of the road — plus age and identity proof, affidavits, and two witnesses who genuinely know you as a married couple. Children’s birth certificates and school records naming both parents are strong evidence.
- Where do you register it? Ordinarily in the state where the marriage was solemnised. For a wedding in a UP village that is Uttar Pradesh, under its Marriage Registration Rules 2017 through igrsup.gov.in; for Bihar, Jharkhand, West Bengal or Odisha, each state has its own arrangement. Doing it at home, where your witnesses and documents are, is often faster and cheaper — and we will tell you so even though it means no booking for us.
- Your documents are yours. No employer, agency or contractor may keep your originals as security or against alleged dues. Photocopies for their records and police verification are normal; holding the originals is not, and refusing to return them is a police matter.
- Get the time off in advance. The paperwork can be done on a Sunday; the appointment needs one weekday. Asked a week ahead, most employers say yes.
- Open a bank account in your own name, with your own mobile number, and register on e-Shram. Every welfare payment, insurance payout and pension in this country lands in an account, and every one of those schemes pays a spouse who can be proved. We handle none of them and earn nothing from them.
Our Vasant Vihar guide was written end to end for household workers and their marriages, and our Kapashera guide covers the factory and border belt next door.
Fees, at Cost and in Full
Our charges are the same for everybody and do not change because you are in a hurry or calling from a different state.
| Service | Our fee | What it covers |
| Arya Samaj marriage — ceremony only | ₹5,100 | Pandit, havan, saptapadi and the mandir certificate. No government registration. |
| Arya Samaj marriage with registration | ₹7,100 | The ceremony plus the SDM registration and the government certificate |
| Marriage registration (ceremony already held) | ₹6,000 | Full application, appointment and certificate |
| Court marriage assistance | ₹6,100 | End-to-end assistance with the civil registration |
| Nikah registration | ₹6,000 | Registration of a nikah |
| Special Marriage Act (full assistance) | ₹15,000 | Notice, the thirty days, solemnisation and certificate |
| Duplicate or correction | ₹2,500 | Application, follow-up and collection |
Understand the first two rows before you choose. ₹5,100 buys the ceremony and the mandir certificate. ₹7,100 buys that plus the government registration — and it is the government certificate that an employer, a bank, an insurer, a passport office or an embassy will act on. We will not push you onto the higher package, and we will not let you leave on the lower one believing you have bought the higher one.
Government charges are separate and shown at cost, on their own line of your receipt with our charge on another — including whatever the Haryana portal or the Delhi office charges, and any late fee. We add nothing and round nothing up. Pickup and drop, photography and video are optional extras and are quoted separately; none of them is needed for the marriage or the paperwork. The full list is on our fees page.
A Realistic Timeline From Gurugram
| Your situation | Realistic time | What decides it |
| Both eligible, originals in hand, two witnesses confirmed | Ceremony the same day; certificate in a few working days | Whether your originals are with you and your witnesses actually come |
| Originals at home in another state | Add 2–4 days | Courier — do not travel for them |
| Age proof does not exist yet | Add 2–6 weeks | A home-state application to the panchayat or municipality |
| Registering an old marriage solemnised in Haryana | Per the Haryana portal | Evidence of the ceremony and the applicable fee tier |
| Registering an old marriage solemnised in Delhi | About 7–10 days | Photographs, the institution’s slip and the affidavits |
| Inter-faith, resident in Gurugram | About 60 days, in Haryana | 30 days’ residence, then 30 days’ notice |
| Certificate needed abroad | Add 1–3 weeks after registration, more for non-Hague | State authentication, then MEA apostille or embassy attestation |
| Either party under 21 (groom) or 18 (bride) | Not at all | We decline, at any price |
Ten Mistakes Gurugram Couples Make
- Assuming a Delhi office will take a Gurugram residence for a Special Marriage Act notice. It will not.
- Assuming a Gurugram office can register a Delhi mandir wedding without understanding which limb applies.
- Stopping at the mandir certificate. The government registration is the document that matters afterwards.
- Converting to avoid the notice, without checking the Haryana conversion law.
- Taking a protection petition to the wrong High Court. Haryana residents go to Punjab and Haryana at Chandigarh.
- One name on the rent agreement.
- Bringing two witnesses to a Special Marriage Act solemnisation. Three are needed.
- Missing the employer’s thirty-day window to add a spouse to medical cover.
- Registering the same marriage in two states “to be safe”. It is the discrepancy that stops a passport later.
- Never updating the nominations.
Four Gurugram Situations, and What Happened
Anonymised, and each stands for many.
The couple sent to the wrong state. An inter-faith couple living in Sector 56 were told by an agent to file their Special Marriage Act notice in Delhi because “it is faster there”. It is not faster, and more to the point they had no Delhi residence to show. They lost three weeks before somebody told them the notice goes to the Marriage Officer of the district where one of them actually resides — which was in Haryana. They filed correctly, waited the thirty days, and married.
The couple who did not need sixty days at all. Both Hindu, both working in Cyber City, quoted the Special Marriage Act by somebody else. They were eligible for an Arya Samaj marriage at the Delhi mandir, registered in Delhi on the solemnisation limb, with no notice and no residence requirement. Ceremony on a Saturday, appointment the following Wednesday. We would rather make that call than take the larger booking.
The driver married in Chhapra in 2014. Living in Chakkarpur for nine years, never registered, needed it for an insurance nomination after a road accident scare. The wedding was solemnised in Bihar, so the natural route was there — but his employer would not give him four days. We told him honestly what each option involved, and he had a cousin in Chhapra get the institution’s register extract and courier it, which made everything else straightforward. The piece he had not known he could ask for was the register extract.
The one we refused. A couple asked us to prepare a Delhi rent agreement so they could give notice in Delhi rather than in Gurugram, because her family were in a Haryana village and they hoped the notice would not travel. We said no. A false residence claim sits on a public record for life, and in any event where neither party permanently resides in the notice district a copy goes to each party’s district of permanent residence anyway — so it would not even have worked. They filed in Gurugram, and planned for the notice properly instead.
What We Will Not Do
- We do not manufacture a residence — no affidavit for an address you do not live at, no arranged rent agreement, no notice filed on a document we can see was made for the purpose.
- We do not provide witnesses. Two for an Arya Samaj ceremony, three for a Special Marriage Act solemnisation, each an adult who genuinely knows you.
- We do not touch an under-age marriage. 21 for the groom and 18 for the bride, at any price, and we decline where a document appears to have been altered.
- We stop if either party is not giving a clear, free yes in their own words, and we speak to both of you alone to find out.
- We do not marry anybody while an earlier marriage subsists. A decree or a death certificate, not an affidavit.
- We do not press anybody to convert, and we tell inter-faith couples about the Special Marriage Act first.
- We do not promise to shorten a statutory period, in either state.
- We do not charge an urgency, distance, weekend or deadline surcharge, and travel between Gurugram and Delhi does not change our fee.
- We do not practise law. Protection petitions, divorce, maintenance, custody, succession and property go to an independent advocate acting in their own name, whose fee we take no share of.
- We do not discuss your file with anybody — not a family, not an employer, not a caller who says it is urgent.
Two safety notes. Never hand original documents to somebody who approaches you outside a mandir, a court or an office, and never sign a blank form or blank stamp paper. And nobody from us will ever ask you for an OTP, a UPI PIN, a card PIN, a CVV or a net banking password, or ask you to install a screen-sharing app, or ask you to approve a payment request in order to receive money. If it happens in our name: stop, share nothing, call +91 8376863962, and report it at cybercrime.gov.in or on 1930 — within the first hour if money has gone.
What Happens When You Call Us From Gurugram
- You send photographs of your documents on WhatsApp — age proof and identity for both, your current address proof, and anything about a previous marriage. Free.
- We tell you which state your route runs in, and why — which is the single question most Gurugram couples get wrong, and the one that costs the most time.
- We tell you the honest timeline, including when the answer is “this belongs in Haryana and not with us in Delhi” or “register it in your home state instead, it will be faster”.
- You confirm your own witnesses and we tell them exactly what to bring.
- You get a written quote with our charge and the government charges on separate lines, before anything is paid.
- The ceremony, then the registration, then the certificate checked at the counter before you leave.
- We tell you the boring things for the month after — employer records within the thirty-day window, nominations, KYC.
Phone and WhatsApp: +91 8376863962. Arya Samaj marriage with registration ₹7,100 · ceremony only ₹5,100 · marriage registration ₹6,000 · court marriage assistance ₹6,100 · nikah registration ₹6,000 · Special Marriage Act ₹15,000 · duplicates and corrections ₹2,500. Government charges separate and at cost.
This page is general information about the law and the procedure, not legal advice on your own case. Haryana and Delhi have separate statutes, portals, forms and fees, and all of them change — confirm current requirements on shaadi.edisha.gov.in for Haryana and the Delhi e-District portal for Delhi before you act, and take your own legal advice, particularly before anybody converts. We are a marriage documentation and coordination service, not a law firm; we do not practise law and we do not appear anywhere. Emergency 112 · women’s helpline 181.
Gurgaon Marriage FAQs
Can local Gurgaon SDM Office register?▼
Yes — if couple lives in Gurgaon with address proof, local SDM/Tehsildar registration possible.
How far is Gurgaon from Delhi Mandir?▼
30-45 minutes drive. Metro option too. Pickup/Drop ₹1,500 extra.
Is Gurgaon address proof valid for Delhi Marriage?▼
Yes — Gurgaon address proof valid. No residence restriction for Arya Samaj Marriage.
Same Day Marriage in Gurgaon?▼
Arya Samaj route — yes. Court Marriage needs 30-day notice.
Love Marriage arrangements in Gurgaon?▼
100% confidential service. Pickup, Delhi marriage, safe drop back.
Gurgaon Marriage fees?▼
Basic ₹6,000, Combined ₹7,100, Premium ₹30,000.
We live in Gurugram. Can we register our marriage in Delhi?▼
It depends entirely on where the marriage was or will be solemnised. Delhi's rules under section 8 of the Hindu Marriage Act provide for registration by the Registrar in whose jurisdiction the marriage was solemnised, as well as where a party resides. So an Arya Samaj wedding performed at the Delhi mandir can be registered in Delhi even though you live in Gurugram — the solemnisation limb carries it. A marriage solemnised in Haryana, however, belongs in Haryana under the Haryana Compulsory Registration of Marriages Act, 2008.
Which law applies to a marriage in Gurugram?▼
The Haryana Compulsory Registration of Marriages Act, 2008, with its Rules of the same year, for marriages solemnised in Haryana — and it applies whatever the religion of the parties. Applications are made through the state portal at shaadi.edisha.gov.in, with the appointment and verification following with the registering authority for your area. Delhi is a different state with a different Order, a different portal and different forms and fees.
Can we file our Special Marriage Act notice in Delhi if we live in Gurugram?▼
No, unless one of you genuinely resides in a Delhi district and can show it. The notice goes to the Marriage Officer of a district in which at least one party has resided for thirty days immediately before the notice — and if you live in Gurugram, that is a Haryana district. Couples are regularly told they can “just file in Delhi”; they cannot, and the weeks lost finding that out are avoidable. We will not draft a residence claim for an address you do not live at.
What proves 30 days' residence in Gurugram?▼
An Aadhaar showing the Gurugram address, a rent agreement, electricity or gas bills, a bank statement, an employer's letter, or a landlord's declaration. What the office is really assessing is whether you genuinely live there. A hotel, a service apartment taken for a few weeks or a friend's flat is not residence. An agreement dated last week does not establish thirty days on its own; one dated two months ago with a couple of bills and an updated Aadhaar comfortably does.
Why does the Arya Samaj route work for us but the Special Marriage Act does not?▼
Because they turn on different things. The Arya Samaj route produces a Hindu marriage under section 7 of the Hindu Marriage Act, and Delhi registers it on the basis that it was solemnised in Delhi — no residence needed. The Special Marriage Act turns on residence, and your residence is in Haryana. That single distinction is the most useful thing on this page for a Gurugram couple.
How late can we register a marriage solemnised in Haryana?▼
Late registration is still registration — being late costs a higher fee, not the right to register. The commonly published pattern under the Haryana arrangements is a lower fee within about ninety days of the marriage, a higher one after that, and a further tier after a year. Confirm the current figures on shaadi.edisha.gov.in rather than relying on any website, including this one: state fees change and we do not quote government charges from memory.
Is our marriage invalid if we never registered it?▼
No. Registration records a marriage; it does not create one. If you were married by ceremony years ago you have been married those years, and your children's position does not change — a child is legitimate whether or not the parents' marriage was registered. What you lack is proof in the form that banks, employers, insurers, passport offices and courts ask for. The Supreme Court's direction in Seema v. Ashwani Kumar (2006), which produced the Haryana Act and the Delhi Order alike, was about protection and proof, not validity.
Is there any deadline we cannot miss?▼
One, and it is absolute in Haryana as in Delhi: after a spouse dies, the marriage can no longer be registered at all — not for a fee, not with an affidavit, not by any office and not by any agent. Everything the survivor needs afterwards has to be proved another way, through photographs, witnesses, affidavits, children's records and often a court. If you are married and it is not registered, do it while both of you are alive.
We married in a village in UP or Bihar. Where do we register?▼
Ordinarily in the state where the marriage was solemnised. For Uttar Pradesh that is the Marriage Registration Rules 2017 through igrsup.gov.in; Bihar, Jharkhand, West Bengal and Odisha each have their own arrangements. Doing it at home, where your witnesses and documents are, is often faster and cheaper, and we will tell you so even though it means no booking for us. What you must not do is register the same marriage in two states “to be safe” — that is the discrepancy that stops a passport later.
Our Aadhaar shows a village address. Can we still apply?▼
Yes. A home-state address proof is a valid address proof, not a defect, and a very large share of the people working in Gurugram are in exactly that position. Bring what you actually have rather than deciding in advance that you do not qualify. What you must never do is claim a Gurugram or Delhi address you do not have.
How do we prove a wedding from years ago?▼
The strongest and least-known document is an attested register extract with the entry number from the mandir, masjid, gurudwara or church where the wedding took place — registers belong to the institution, not the individual, so a pandit or qazi who has died is usually not the end of the road. Then witnesses who genuinely know you as a married couple, your children's birth certificates and school records naming both parents, the ration card, the wedding card and ceremony photographs, and affidavits from both spouses.
Is it risky to convert so we can use the faster route?▼
Yes, and it matters more here than in Delhi, because you live in Haryana. Haryana has the Haryana Prevention of Unlawful Conversion of Religion Act, 2022, and statutes of this kind — in Uttar Pradesh, Uttarakhand, Madhya Pradesh, Himachal Pradesh, Gujarat and several other states — commonly require a prior declaration to the District Magistrate and commonly treat a conversion carried out solely for the purpose of marriage as unlawful, with consequences that can reach whoever performed or arranged it. Delhi has no such law, but Delhi is not where you live. Take proper legal advice from an advocate before anybody converts — and remember the Special Marriage Act needs no conversion at all.
Which High Court do we approach for a protection petition?▼
A couple resident in Haryana approaches the Punjab and Haryana High Court at Chandigarh; a couple resident in Delhi approaches the Delhi High Court. Getting this wrong costs time at the worst possible moment. Either way the petition is drafted and filed by an advocate acting in their own name — we do not draft or file petitions, we do not appear anywhere, and we take no share of any advocate's fee.
Our families are opposed. Which route is more private?▼
Where both of you are Hindu, Sikh, Jain or Buddhist, an Arya Samaj marriage with registration has no public notice at all. The Special Marriage Act has a thirty-day notice that is displayed at the office, and where neither party permanently resides in that district a copy is sent to each party's district of permanent residence to be published there. For couples with families in Rewari, Jhajjar, Rohtak, Mahendragarh or a UP village, that is a real consideration and it is the reason to understand the difference before anybody sells you the sixty-day route.
Can anybody object to our marriage because of caste or religion?▼
Under the Special Marriage Act, objections can only be made on the ground that the marriage would breach a condition in section 4 — a living spouse, incapacity to give valid consent, the ages of 21 and 18, or prohibited degrees. Different religions is not a ground, caste is not a ground and family disapproval is not a ground. If an objection is made, the Marriage Officer must inquire and decide within thirty days, there is an appeal to the district court within thirty days, and costs can be awarded against a frivolous objection.
Do we need our parents' permission?▼
No, in any form. Two adults may marry and the consent of family, community or clan is not required — Lata Singh (2006) and Shakti Vahini (2018), where the Supreme Court laid down directions for the police and district administration on protecting such couples. In Shafin Jahan v. Asokan K.M. (2018) the Court held that choosing a partner is part of the liberty and dignity protected by Article 21.
How many witnesses do we need?▼
Two for an Arya Samaj ceremony; three for a solemnisation under the Special Marriage Act — three, not two, and bringing two is one of the commonest reasons a date has to be rescheduled. Each witness must be an adult who genuinely knows you, carrying their own original photo identity and address proof, attending in person.
Can you arrange witnesses for us?▼
No — not for a fee, not as a favour, and not because you are new to Gurugram or your families will not come. It is a fixed term of how we work and it is in our terms and conditions. A paid witness is a false statement to a public authority and it leaves your record open to challenge exactly when you most need it solid. Ask two people a week in advance and confirm the night before.
Both of us work in Cyber City and cannot take leave. What is the minimum?▼
The paperwork, the photographs, the affidavits and the whole conversation with us can happen on a Sunday or an evening. What genuinely needs a working day is the appointment, and usually only one. Both of you must attend on the same day, so coordinate your leave before you take the appointment rather than after. Ask a week in advance — asked ahead, most employers say yes.
We are on an eleven-month rent agreement. Does that matter?▼
More than couples realise. Put both names on it. It is the cheapest protection either of you will ever buy, it gives each of you a document showing your own address, and it is what makes a residence claim genuine if you later need the Special Marriage Act. Once the tenancy is stable, update one Aadhaar to the Gurugram address — UIDAI accepts a rent agreement for an address update, and after that every application gets simpler.
What documents do we need?▼
Age proof for both — matriculation certificate, birth certificate or passport, and for many people it is in a trunk in another state, so start it first and courier it. Photo identity for both in original. Address proof for both; a home-state address is fine. Several passport photographs each. Evidence of the ceremony where one has already taken place. Affidavits, which we prepare. Two witnesses with their own originals — three for the Special Marriage Act. And a divorce decree or death certificate where either of you was married before.
One of us was married before. What do you need to see?▼
A decree of divorce in original or certified copy with the case details legible, or a death certificate — not an affidavit saying a marriage “is finished” and not a panchayat paper. Where there is a decree, the appeal position affects when a party may lawfully remarry, so have your advocate confirm it in writing before you fix a date. We will not marry anybody while an earlier marriage subsists.
What is the difference between the ₹5,100 and ₹7,100 packages?▼
₹5,100 is the ceremony and the mandir certificate — no government registration. ₹7,100 is that plus the SDM registration and the government certificate, which is the document an employer, a bank, an insurer, a passport office or an embassy will act on. Most couples need the second. Ask which one you are paying for and check it on your receipt before you pay.
Is the mandir certificate enough?▼
No. It records the ceremony and it is the primary document the registration is filed with, but it is not what any office acts on afterwards. Do not stop halfway — it is the most expensive mistake in this trade, and people usually discover it years later at a passport counter or an insurance claim.
Do you charge extra for travel from Gurugram?▼
No. Our fees are the same for everybody and travel between Gurugram and Delhi does not change them, nor does urgency, a weekend or a deadline. Pickup and drop, photography and video are optional extras quoted separately, and none of them is needed for the marriage or the paperwork. Government charges are separate and shown at cost on their own line of your receipt.
What must we check before leaving the counter?▼
Both names and their exact spellings — against the passports if either of you has one — both fathers' names, the date of the marriage, the place, and both dates of birth. A correction on the spot takes a minute; the same correction later means a fresh application, a ₹2,500 fee and another day of leave.
One of us may be posted abroad. What should we plan for?▼
After the registration, the certificate needs authentication within India by the designated authority of the state that issued it — so a Haryana certificate and a Delhi certificate take different first steps — then an MEA apostille for a Hague Convention country, or MEA attestation plus that country's embassy attestation for one that is not. Budget one to three weeks for the apostille stage and a further one to three for embassy attestation. Ask the receiving authority which form it wants before ordering, and order several certified copies while you are still here.
Will the certificate be accepted by my employer's HR and insurer?▼
The government certificate, yes. Group medical cover usually has a window of about thirty days from the marriage to add a spouse, so do it straight away rather than at the next enrolment. And update your EPF Form 2 and gratuity Form F nominations — they do not carry over on marriage, and a great many people in this belt still have a parent named years later. Note that a nominee is a receiver, not an owner: nomination does not override succession law, with a deliberate exception for insurance where a parent, spouse or child nominee is a beneficial nominee.
I work in a house in Gurugram and my employer keeps my documents. Is that allowed?▼
No. Your Aadhaar, passport, educational certificates and bank passbook belong to you. No employer, agency or contractor may hold the originals as a condition of employment, as security against your leaving, or against money said to be owed. They may reasonably keep photocopies for their records and for police verification. Ask once, calmly and in writing; if they are still not returned, that is a matter you can take to the police.
Can somebody attend on our behalf?▼
No. Both of you must be physically present, at the ceremony and at the registration appointment. There is no power-of-attorney marriage, no proxy marriage and no video-call marriage in India.
Can you register the marriage if the bride is 17?▼
No. Under the Prohibition of Child Marriage Act, 2006 the minimum age is 21 for the groom and 18 for the bride. We decline in every case, at any price, whoever is asking, and we also decline where a document appears to have been altered.
What if one of us is not sure?▼
We stop. We speak to both parties separately, in a language each is comfortable in, and if somebody has been brought along and is answering on the person's behalf we ask them to step outside. If the answer is not a clear yes from each of you in your own words, we do not proceed — however much has been paid. If you are the one who is unsure, ask to speak to us alone; you will not be argued with and nothing will be repeated to the people waiting.
Will you tell our families that we contacted you?▼
No, never. We do not call families, we do not confirm to any caller or visitor that you are our client, and we do not discuss one couple with another. If there is a particular number or name to be careful about, tell us at the start and it goes on your file.
Will anyone from your office ask for an OTP or a UPI PIN?▼
Never. Nobody from us is authorised to ask for an OTP, a UPI PIN, a card PIN, a CVV or a net banking password, and we will never ask you to install a screen-sharing app or approve a payment request in order to receive money. Get a receipt for every rupee from anybody including us, never hand originals to somebody who approaches you outside a mandir, a court or an office, and never sign a blank form. If anything is done in our name: stop, share nothing, call +91 8376863962 and report it at cybercrime.gov.in or on 1930, within the first hour if money has gone.
Do you give legal advice?▼
No. We are a marriage documentation and coordination service, not a law firm, and we do not practise law or appear anywhere. Protection petitions, divorce, maintenance, custody, succession and property go to an independent advocate acting in their own name, whose fee we take no share of. This page is general information; Haryana and Delhi have separate statutes, portals and fees and all of them change, so confirm current requirements on the official portal before you act.
What is the most useful thing we can do today?▼
Send photographs of your documents on WhatsApp to +91 8376863962. Within minutes you will know the one thing most Gurugram couples get wrong — which state your route actually runs in — plus what is missing and the honest timeline, including when the answer is “this belongs in Haryana” or “register it in your home state, it will be faster”. And confirm your two witnesses today; that is the commonest reason a wedding day collapses.
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